My sister recently needed a sympathy card for a man and I always try to make two cards at the same time so that I have spares on hand. I made the card for my sister a little more masculine by adding metal accents. On the other one I used antique lace and a bow. I thought it was nice how the same card could seem appropriate for a man or a woman with the smallest of changes. The beautiful phrase 'Serenity Prayer' is from Cornish Heritage Farms.